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GUY-NECOLOGY
- Solutions to Male Sexual Problems
Stephen
Byrnes, PhD
“Its
alright, dear. It happens to everyone sometimes.”
Originally
published in WellBeing Magazine, August 2001
Such
caring words, spoken by spouses and partners of men who can’t
“perform,” offer little relief to a man’s bruised ego.
While women’s health issues are usually openly discussed,
men’s are not. Due
to the social perception of men needing to be "strong"
and "virile," impotence, infertility, and premature
ejaculation are not something afflicted men like to admit to.
These problems can therefore be sources of much embarrassment
and humiliation, and many men suffer in silence. Since many men
the world over identify their masculinity with their sexual
prowess (as well as penile size), admitting to performance
problems is a virtual admission that one is not really a man.
The solutions proffered by mainstream medicine were few
and far between until the creation of the anti-impotence drug Viagra.
Suddenly, men who could not achieve erections were able to
simply by popping a few pills. For many men, the drug was a
godsend. But as is often the case with drug therapies, there is
a price to pay for tampering with the body’s biochemistry.
While it appears that the drug does work for some (not all) men,
drugs are really not a desirable option for the health-minded
man. Drugs interfere with the body’s chemistry and prevent
true healing from taking place.
As with women’s health problems, impotence,
infertility, and premature ejaculation have been effectively
treated by natural therapies for thousands of years. While no
one approach is likely to work for every single man, it is still
possible to give some general pointers on how to resolve male
sexual problems.
Diet
Since nutrition is the foundation of all healing, a man
needs to be sure he is eating right to avoid potential health
problems, as well as correct any imbalances. What this means is
that a man should strive at all times to have a nutrient-dense
diet of unprocessed, whole foods that provide concentrated
sources of key nutrients to his reproductive system. These key
nutrients are zinc, vitamins A, D, E and C, and essential fatty
acids.
Vitamins A & D: Both of these fat-soluble vitamins
are potent antioxidants and immune system stimulants.
Deficiencies of both nutrients can lead to reproductive
failure in both men and women. They are also anti-infective and
pivotal in maintaining healthy mucous membranes, the kind found,
among other places, in the urinary tract and the prostate gland.
It should be noted here that that vitamin A and full,
usable complex vitamin D are only found in animal fats. It is a
very common error among many nutritionists to say things like,
“Yellow and orange fruits and vegetables contain vitamin A.”
What plants contain is provitamin A, or plant carotenes, which
the body can convert into vitamin A IF certain conditions are
present--it is not an automatic conversion. Infants and
children, diabetics, alcoholics, and those with liver disease or
hypothyroidism cannot make the conversion. Furthermore, the
conversion can only take place in the presence of bile from the
gall bladder. What this means is that fat needs to be eaten with
your carrots to enhance the conversion of betacarotene into
vitamin A.
In his pioneering studies of nutrition among native
peoples, Dr. Weston Price, DDS, discovered that traditional
diets emphasized foods rich in what he called the “fat-soluble
activators,” or vitamins A and D. Furthermore, Price was
surprised to learn that native peoples the world over emphasized
foods rich in these vitamins for prospective parents. Native
peoples well understood the vital importance of proper
nourishment for BOTH parents (not just the mother) when planning
for children (1).
A
graphic example of this can be seen in this excerpt from Col.
William Byrd’s official survey report of the border between
Virginia and North Carolina in the United States, written in
1728:
“I
will venture to publish a Secret of Importance, which our Indian
[guide] disclosed to me. I asked him the reason why few or none
of his Countrywomen were barren? To which curious Question he
answered, with a Broad grin upon his Face, they had an
INFALLIBLE secret for that. Upon my being importunate to know
what the secret might be, he informed me that, if any Indian
woman did not prove with child at a decent time after Marriage,
the Husband, to save his Reputation with the women, forthwith
entered into a Bear-diet for Six Weeks, which in that time makes
him so vigorous that he grows exceedingly impertinent to his
poor wife and ‘tis great odds but he makes her a Mother in
Nine Months. And thus I am able to say, besides, for the
Reputation of the Bear Diet, that all Married men of our Company
were joyful Fathers within forty weeks after they got Home, and
most of the Single men had children sworn to them within the
same time . . . .” (2). Bear is a very fatty animal and it was eaten with relish
by many Native American tribes.
While it is unlikely that any of us will be eating bear
for dinner tonight, other rich food sources of vitamins A and D
are: all oily fish such as salmon, mackerel and sardines, liver,
fish roe, eggs, full-fat cheeses, especially raw and from
pasture-fed animals, sour cream, and several varieties of
insects (a prime food source in many native diets).
Men are often warned to avoid animal fats for fear of
“clogged arteries” and, by extension, impotence for it is
believed that the fats will, somehow, block the arteries leading
to the penis and prevent an erection. Indeed, an animal rights
group in the USA recently ran billboard ads urging men to avoid
eating beef because it supposedly caused impotence! But the
fears of “clogged arteries” from consuming animal fats are
unfounded as the fatty acids found in arterial clogs have been
shown to be mostly UNsaturated (about 75%), of which about 40%
are polyunsaturated (3). Polyunsaturated fatty acids are
predominantly found in processed vegetable oils. For the
health-minded man, all vegetable oils and foods made with them
need to eliminated from the diet at once. Vegetable oils include
soy, safflower, corn, cottonseed, canola, shortening and
margarine. Shortening and margarine need to be especially
avoided as they contain substances called trans-fatty acids,
which have been shown to contribute to infertility in both men
and women (4).
Vitamin
C: In addition to being a general antibacterial and antioxidant,
vitamin C is also a major component of prostatic tissue and is
found in seminal fluid. Good food sources are: potatoes, citrus
fruits, berries (especially acerola berries), greens,
cantaloupe, and broccoli.
Zinc:
Medical and nutritional research has linked zinc deficiency to
prostate weakness and male and female infertility. Zinc
supplementation is a virtual must for men with prostate problems
as it inhibits the conversion of testosterone precursors into
the activated hormone (which leads to overgrowth of prostatic
tissue). Zinc is also highly concentrated in seminal fluid and
is essential for reproduction. Good food sources are sardines,
oysters (very high amounts), lamb, poultry, beef, whole grains,
pumpkin seeds, raw nuts, and brewer's yeast. Its interesting to
note here that oysters have had a long reputation as an
aphrodisiac food for men. This may be because of their high zinc
content. When zinc deficiencies are corrected, impotence and
infertility disappear.
Readers should be aware that zinc from grains, nuts and
seeds is poorly absorbed due to phytic acid and enzyme
inhibitors present. Phytate is an organic acid that binds to
minerals and prevents their absorption in the small intestine.
When seed foods are soaked prior to cooking and eating, however,
the water initiates a chemical process that breaks down the
phytate and enzyme inhibitors, thus freeing up the food’s
minerals for better digestability. Recent studies done with
brown rice in Japan, for example, showed that soaked rice had
much higher levels of certain amino acids and B vitamins than
unsoaked rice (5).
Whole grains should be soaked in acidulated water at room
temperature for at least seven hours before cooking or eating
(simply stir 1 tbsp of either raw vinegar, lemon juice, or
yogurt into the water). Nuts and seeds should be soaked in
lightly-salted water for at least seven hours and then air or
oven-dried. Soaking seed foods before consuming them is another
interesting feature of traditional diets.
Essential
Fatty Acids:As
with zinc, deficiency in EFA's has been shown to hinder prostate
function.EFA's are
used to help control allergies, resolve eczema and psoriasis,
eliminate menstrual cramps, and, like the other nutrients
discussed, stimulate immune function.
EFA’s act to nourish the prostate gland and, by their
conversion into substances called prostaglandins, help
facilitate hormonal activity on the cellular level.
Good food sources are mackerel; sardines; flax, walnut,
and fish oils; dark green leafy vegetables; and salmon.
Vitamin E: Vitamin E, like zinc and vitamin C, is a major component of
prostatic tissue, helping to stabilize it.
This nutrient, along with zinc and C, is also necessary
for the formation of sperm.
Good sources are olive oil, raw nuts and seeds, fresh
wheat germ, wheat germ oil (the highest source), and animal fats
(smaller amounts).
Arginine:
Emphasizing arginine-rich foods is also a good idea as this
amino acid is excellent for enhancing circulation and for
helping to dilate the capillaries which leads to increased blood
flow to the penis. Arginine also helps to increase low sperm
counts and is a standard supplement for infertility in men (6).
Dosage should be 3-4 grams a day. Foods rich in arginine are
primarily the plant protein sources such as nuts and legumes.
AVOID
ESTROGEN
It goes without saying that, to help maintain a high
level of male hormones, you should avoid food sources of both
natural and synthetic estrogens. Commercially-raised animals are
routinely given estrogenic hormones to fatten them up. Residues
of these estrogens end up on your plate and serve to lower sperm
counts. If you eat meat, consume only FREE RANGE meats. The same
goes for milk and eggs: look for organic only to avoid
estrogenic hormones.
One other food to avoid is soy as it is high in plant, or
phyto, estrogens like genistein and daidzein. Avoidance of soy
is especially crucial for infant boys whose circulating estrogen
levels rise to skyrocketing proportions when on soy formula (7).
Buddhist monks have the habit of eating lots of tofu
specifically to dampen libido (8).
The phytoestrogens in soy also are known to depress
thyroid function by interfering with the gland’s ability to
uptake iodine (9). Though hypothyroidism mostly afflicts
post-menopausal women, it is not unknown in men and is a prime
factor in low libido. This condition needs to be ruled out if
your sex drive is diminished, especially if other signs of the
disorder are present: depression, feeling cold, extreme fatigue
in the mornings, constipation, dull hair, etc. The nutrients and
foods that help stimulate and maintain thyroid function are
vitamin A, iodine, the B complex, the amino acid tyrosine,
butter, raw milk cheeses, blackstrap molasses, eggs, parsley,
and apricots. Other foods which can interfere with thyroid
function if consumed to excess include millet; raw cabbage,
kale, cauliflower, broccoli, and mustard greens; turnips;
peaches; and pears (10).
ALCOHOL
& SMOKING
Men facing sexual difficulties should strongly consider
quitting smoking and reducing their alcohol intake. Smoking
restricts blood flow through the capillaries, including those of
the penis, and has been shown to hinder a man’s ability to get
and maintain an erection. Alcohol in large amounts has a
detrimental effect on sexual performance. You certainly can’t
expect to perform very well if you’re falling over drunk!
Herbs
The
herbs damiana, sarsaparilla, and gotu kola have been
traditionally employed for male impotence. Damiana has a long
history as an aphrodisiac. Sarsaparilla is plentiful in male
hormones, and gotu kola helps with peripheral circulation and
increases blood flow to the penis. All these herbs are available
over the counter as capsules and/or tinctures.
Other herbs to consider would be yohimbe and cayenne.
Cayenne is used mostly for its positive effect on circulation.
Yohimbe, an African herb, has a long history of use for male
impotence. Dosage, of course, will vary according to the man
invovled. Yohime has, unfortunately, been restricted in some
countries. In the USA, for example, it is impossible to buy the
herb on its own and can only be found in commercially-prepared
herbal blends.
Another herb that has been shown to safely elevate
testosterone levels in both men and women is Tribulus
terrestris. Tribulus has become a popular herb among
athletes due to its supposed muscle-building properties (through
its ability to stimulate testosterone production). Studies have
not shown, however, any substantial gains in muscle strength or
size, though heightened sex drive was a pleasant side effect
(11).
Homeopathy
Use Lycopodium for long-term impotence, Nux
vomica for temporary impotence caused by nervousness or
over-consumption of drugs or alcohol, Arnica montana for
impotence caused by injury, and Sabal serrulata for
impotence if you are elderly. Conium and Selenium are
both very good for premature ejaculation. Potency strength will
vary from man to man but, for home use the 6C potency should be
OK. Consulting with a homeopathic practitioner will help you
ascertain the best potency and remedy for you.
With sexual difficulties usually come feelings of
emotional and physical inadequacy as well as feelings of
helplessness and increased irritability due to the inability to
perform or produce a child. Flower remedies that can help would
be the Bach remedy Agrimony for fear of bad sexual performance
and Crab Apple for a negative body image. The Australian Bush
essences can also be employed, especially the Relationship or
Confid blends.
Taoist
Technique for Premature Ejaculation
Though I cannot remember the source, I memorized this
little technique from a Taoist handbook many years ago and have
successfully used it many times over the years. Best of all,
your partner need not know you are doing it as it can be done
inconspicuously. Here is the technique: when you feel the urge
to ejaculate, stop all movement and fold your tongue back while
pressing it to the roof of your mouth. While in this position,
hold your breath for about 10 seconds then release and commence
movement. If you need to “hold back” another time, simply
repeat the technique. If your partner continues to move while
you’re doing the exercise, gently ask them to stay still for a
moment.
According to the Taoists, the technique works by
temporarily diverting chi, or energy, away from the root
chakra, the one associated with the sexual organs. Whatever the
explanation, the technique works and I encourage you to try it.
Emotional
Support
A supportive partner always helps when facing a sexual
problem. Bear in mind that your inability to perform (or perform
well) may be a sign that part of you does not want the
relationship or, if you’re not with a permanent partner, a
sign that, deep-down, you really don’t want a casual sexual
encounter. Your inability to get and maintain an erection may be
a drastic defense mechanism against intimacy or further
involvement in a situation you do not want, but have not
admitted to yet. Life stresses can also get in the way of a
man’s abilities and need to be considered as causes as well.
If psychological issues are not at stake, however, work to
discover the ultimate causes of your problems and work to
resolve them. Remember: there can be several reasons why you
cannot function sexually so its important to treat the WHOLE
you.
Many
Ways
Finally, men need to realize that they do not need an
erect penis to love and please their partner. Popular American
advice columnist Ann Landers ran a reader’s poll a few years
ago asking women what would they prefer, having sex with their
partners or being lovingly held and kissed by them. The majority
chose the latter. It wasn’t that the women disliked sex; what
they valued more was really feeling loved, appreciated, and
desired by their mates. Good sex does not always revolve around
being able to achieve an erection and last a long time. On those
occasions where you cannot perform for various reasons, don’t
view it as a dead end. If you’re at a loss as to what you
could do to please your partner emotionally and sexually, then
ask them what they’d like you to do for them. You never know:
your bout of impotence might open up a whole new world of
exciting sexual possibilities for you and your partner.
NOTES
1.
Weston A. Price. Nutrition and Physical Degeneration
(Price Pottenger Nutrition Foundation; 1943).
2.
Col. William Byrd, II. Histories of the Dividing Line Betwixt
Virginia and North Carolina, reprinted 1967 by Dover
Publications, Inc. New York, pp. 250-252.
3.
C.V. Felton, et al., Lancet 344:1195, 1994.
4.
Mary Enig. Know Your Fats (Bethesda Press; Maryland),
2000, p. 86.
5.
See http://www.reutershealth.com/archive/2000/12/18/midday/links/
20001218elin024.html
6.
Jonathan Wright, MD. Dr. Wright’s Guide to Healing with
Nutrition. (Keats Publishing; USA), 1984, pp. 414-416. See
also JP Pryor, et al., Brit Jnl of Urol, vol. 50, 1978,
47-50.
7.
KD Setchell, et al. Amer Jnl of Clin Nutr, December 1998,
Supplement 1453S-1461S.
8.
Sally Fallon and Mary Enig. Tragedy & Hype. Townsend
Letter for Doctors & Patients, July 2000. Posted at
www.WestonAPrice.org
9.
Stephen Langer, MD, and James Scheer. Solved: The Riddle of
Illness. (Keats Publishing; USA), 1995, pp. 39-40
10.
James Balch and Phyllis Balch, Prescription for Nutritional
Healing. (Avery Publishing; USA), 1995, p. 335.
11.
James Burke and Daniel Gastelu. Avery’s Sports Nutrition
Almanac (Avery Publishing; New York), 1999, p. 171.
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